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Calvin Klein and the Plus-Size Model Debate

November 12, 2014 by Lisa 5 Comments

On Monday the Twitterverse went nuts with the whole Calvin Klein “plus-sized” model debate. Even I had some choice things to say offline. As it was still on my mind when I woke up this morning, I decided it was time to research the matter and delve into the real deal.

We all owe Calvin some apologies.

Let’s talk about the fashion world. Designer outfits are created around a live, in-house skeleton called a “fit-model.” These women are very thin, waif-like, and let’s face it, clothes hang on them as if they were a clothes hanger. Which is what designers want when sending their fashion lines down the runway.

Do I agree with it? No. But it’s how things are done and they’re not going to listen to a fat chick with a serious case of fashion lust.

Model Myla Dalbesio is a size 10. If she were shopping at Target, Old Navy, etc., she’d probably be a size 6 due to sizing discrepancies. She was hired to promote the new range of lingerie with other “normal” sized models. Yes, I said “normal.” It’s in quotes, because we all know my opinion on the human body and that every body is beautiful, no matter what shape, size or color.

I was her size the first time I went on a diet for being “too fat.” I wish I were kidding you. I was also a size 10 at 5’5″ tall, so my height made me look “dumpy,” compared to relatives and friends.

Where did this come from? From Ms. Dalbesio herself. She was recently interviewed by Elle magazine about being in the campaign  “I’m in the middle,” she said. “I’m not skinny enough to be with the skinny girls and I’m not large enough to be with the large girls and I haven’t been able to find my place. This [campaign] was such a great feeling.”

Calvin never said she was a plus-sized addition to this campaign. What he did say in a statement was “these images are intended to communicate that our new line is more inclusive and available in several silhouettes in an extensive range of sizes.”

An extensive size of ranges. Who would have thought a designer would want to offer more sizing options to fulfill a need in the clothing market. It’s unheard of.

What she is is a breath of fresh air. A woman other women can relate to as “the average American woman.” While she’s not someone I personally can relate to physically, Ms. Dalbesio shows arms and thighs with more flesh than you’d normally ever see in a standard campaign being ran by a high profile design house. As someone who’s read Vogue since she was 10, and yes, I know the feelings of Anna Wintour where fat people are concerned, I’ve seen the marked changes in the advertorial pieces over the past 32 years or 384 issues.

For me, it’s a return to the day of the SuperModel — Cindy, Naomi, Linda, Christy, Helena, and Claudia. Yes, they were all still very thin and fit sample sizes, but they weren’t the sylphs of today. Sample sizes have decreased due to the increased demand in smaller and smaller sizes. It’s the literal photoshopping of clothing using scissors and poor judgment, meaning the models have to take drastic measures and eat tissues or cotton balls soaked in orange juice (yes, I’m serious) which prevent them from gaining weight, yet they feel full.

People were even more outraged by the photo of her stance in the photo, as if she were sucking her stomach in and trying to make it concave. But was it Calvin Klein demanding this shot? The photographer? Or was it society?

I’m hedging a lot on society at large. Where a woman with thighs that touch, larger breasts and a tiny belly pooch are considered plus-size.

The real problem is not “size zero”. The real problem is that we live in a neurotic, miserable society with a deeply disturbed attitude to food, nurture and consumption, a society which teaches children, and particularly girls, that their growing bodies and normal desires are unacceptable and must be starved away.*

Would I like to see Calvin place a “plus-sized” model in his campaigns? Yes. I want to see every body shape and size embraced. I want my friends who are petite in height to be represented. I want my “normal friends” represented. I want my very naturally thin friends represented. My athletic friends. While I’m at it, I’d also love to see all fashion houses who produce clothing take all of these body shapes into consideration and actually create items that aren’t just their “normal clothes” sized up or down –which doesn’t work.

p.s.

Calvin Klein makes a line of plus-sized fashion. It’s not marketed, because, after all, he is the man who introduced us to Kate Moss and that would go against all the fashion police stands for.

Sources:

*http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2011/aug/02/child-anorexia-size-zero

http://time.com/3576576/calvin-klein-never-called-that-model-plus-sized-twitter-did/

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Plus-Size Fashion Chutzpah

November 1, 2013 by Lisa Leave a Comment

I love fashion. However, there’s not much in the way of plus-size fashion for bigger gals. I turn to other plus-size bloggers to see what they are wearing and draw inspiration from them. Needless to say, I’ve not been as comfortable in front of the lens, so none my looks are here… yet. I’m slowly working up the nerve, but it takes time, and chutzpah.

One of my favorite spots to curate my favorite plus-size fashion is on Pinterest. It’s just the right spot to house everything, so I can return to it over and over again as I’m staring in my closet wondering what look I want to put together.

Chutzpah noun \ˈhu̇t-spə, ˈḵu̇t-, -(ˌ)spä\ : personal confidence or courage that allows someone to do or say things that may seem shocking to others

After all, what is more shocking in this day and age than a fashionable plus-size woman. For years, we’ve been relegated to the muumuu, horrendous sweat pant outfits, or polyester pants suits. Let me say it and say it now, just because we don’t match societal expectations, we don’t want look bad.

I grew up reading and subscribing to Vogue, and while Anna Wintour might turn her nose up at me, it doesn’t mean I don’t, and can’t, appreciate fashion. Haute Couture, while I’ll never wear it, is an art form I appreciate as much I would a Monet/Manet/Ver Meer/Picasso, etc. The craftspeople who create these works from a sketch, adding thousands of intricate details by hand and spending hundreds of hours are them are truly skilled artisans who are hidden behind a logo and a designer. Yet, there work is there, a skill slowly being lost in today’s fast food style industry clothing. (In one season, toss it the next.)

One day you’ll see me stepping out from behind the camera and in front of it. I’m working on my own personal chutzpah. For  now, I wear it as I walk down the street. The next step is to wear it for you. For now, I’ll share some of my favorite plus-size looks by others.

Do you have fashion chutzpah?


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My Muses: A Lifetime of Inspiration

August 28, 2013 by Lisa Leave a Comment

diana vreeland

I’ve been thinking a lot about my muses lately, women who’ve inspired me. As Gen-X’rs we don’t have a lot of strong female role models our age, so I tended to look back at strong women from previous generations who’ve inspired me and whose words and world views shaped me.

While they’ll never know me, I have them to thank for helping mold part of who I am and the person I aspire to be. A woman who is in charge of her life and does it with flair. Never stepping down from a challenge, while gracing the world with ambition, imagination and nurturing it with my, and others, writing.

My muses:

Diane Vreeland is the woman who created the concept of the fashion editor. She was Anna Wintour before Wintour was born. Reigning at the helm of Harpers Bazaar, Diana filled the magazine with excitement and energy. She was a nurturer of Avedon and discovered Lauren Bacall. Vogue’s Andrea Leon Talley was her protege. Diana lived her life filled with passion and sought to incorporate that into everything she touched.

“If you were going to invent a character full of fantasy, glamour, ambition, imagination—not beautiful but rather jolie-laide, chic, with a sexy voice, feminine with a touch of masculinity, the ultimate trendsetter beyond luxury—that would be Diana Vreeland.” — Reinaldo Herrera

Helen Gurley Brown was the “It” Girl and the editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan for 32 years. Her book, Sex and the Single Girl, was the basis of the movie by the same name with the iconic Natlie Wood. During the 60’s Brown was an advocate of women’s sexual freedom and used her role at Cosmo to provide women with role-models and a guide. She claimed we could have it all, “love, sex, and money.” My mother read Cosmo, and I read them, eventually subscribing and ending my subscription when she was ousted in 1997. However, she still helmed the reigns as international editor of 59 international editions of Cosmo until her death on August 13, 2012.

Michael Bloomberg, Mayor of New York City, said it best: “Today New York City lost a pioneer who reshaped not only the entire media industry, but the nation’s culture. She was a role model for the millions of women whose private thoughts, wonders and dreams she addressed so brilliantly in print.”

HGB certainly shaped mine.


I’m forever thankful to these amazing women for their work, chutzpah and timeless inspiration.

Who inspires you?

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My Vintage Love

July 10, 2013 by Lisa Leave a Comment

I love vintage images, furniture, clothing, advertising, etc., from the 1930’s-1950’s. I can spend hours poring over images of this time (and earlier) when I’m out antiquing, in a great library, or museum. As someone who studied photography for four years, I’m fascinated by the stories old photographs tell. Lately, I’ve been obsessing over vintage bathing pajamas (so chic!) and photos of classic beach clubs. Gone are the day of quiet elegance,  replaced with all-inclusive resorts that… well, aren’t beach clubs. I know there are problems no matter what era we live in, but that time just seemed so much more civilized, even if it wasn’t.

Today I’m sharing some of my favorite things with a little help from Pinterest. After all, this modern world gives me the opportunity to step back in time whenever I want.

Source: beautifulsymmetry.wordpress.com via Amy on Pinterest

Source: Uploaded by user via bazil on Pinterest

Source: maudelynn.tumblr.com via Christina on Pinterest

Source: giantpantsofthe30s.tumblr.com via La Vie on Pinterest

Source: yeoldefashion.tumblr.com via Mia on Pinterest

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The London Influence, Mary Quant and See by Chloé Pre-Fall 2013

January 17, 2013 by Lisa 2 Comments

see by chloe pre fall 2013

While I’m a plus-size gal, that doesn’t change the fact that I pull ideas from the designer lines to influence how I dress. Later this year, I’ll be pulling ideas from the See by Chloé pre-fall 2013 line. I’m a cross between an anglophile and francophile (not sure how that happened!) and these laid-back, romantic Parisian, sixties London designs makes my heart sing.

I imagine seeing Mary Quant’s young, hip Chelsea boutique Bazaar, with the fashionable London teens hitting the streets, shunning the French establishment of design. This youth culture was populated with young baby boomer artists, show business people, free thinkers and other colorful Chelsea-ites. It was a place for everyone.

These young people were rejecting class and wealth, which would continue into the punk years of the 70’s and 80’s London, but they were also rejection the notion of fashion as style.

So, as it’s coming full circle, away from the PVC fabric and into finer fabrics and 21st-century craftsmanship, we see the French influenced by the Chelsea set from so long ago. Softer in material, cut and tone, but no less edgy, feminine and boyish all at the same time. I love the tones pulled by the Indian summer colors, and can hear Julia Roberts in Steel Magnolias in proclaiming her wedding colors were blush and bashful. However, this blush is nothing like Shelby had draping the church back in Natchitoches, Lousiana.

I’ve pulled some of my favorite looks to share below. What do you think of the new See by Chloé? Are these colors you see yourself pulling into your wardrobe later this summer?

chloe see pre fall 2013

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